Does anyone know what happen to the Prayer of Jabez craze? Has anyone seen any further marketing of this fad?
Below is a good article that was written back when this fad was in its heyday:
What is your opinion of the new best-selling book The Prayer of Jabez?
Should Christians be learning how to pray Jabez’s prayer?The Prayer of Jabez, by Dr. Bruce Wilkinson, has gained enormous popularity in the Christian community. Within the last year it has sold more than 4 million copies-3.5 million in the last four months alone-and has maintained a first-place ranking on many national best-seller lists. The author is a distinguished Bible teacher and founder of Walk thru the Bible Ministries. His organization, which hosts more than 2,500 Bible conferences annually, is designed to train Christians in a fundamental understanding of both the Old and New Testaments.
Wilkinson’s book is a study on Jabez’s prayer recorded in 1 Chronicles 4:9-10. Dr. Wilkinson’s purpose is to encourage believers to continually look to Jabez’s prayer as a model to follow if they expect to receive great blessing from and accomplish great things for God. Dr. Wilkinson writes, “This petition has radically changed what I expect from God and what I experience every day by his power” (p. 7). In fact, he continues to express throughout the book the need for Christians to pray this prayer, so they too can experience a radical change in their life.
We commend much within The Prayer of Jabez.
For example, Dr. Wilkinson rightly emphasizes the importance of prayer in the Christian life. All Christians should commune with the Lord in prayer. Jesus, for example, gave his disciples an outline to follow in prayer (Matthew 6:9-13) and fashioned a parable to encourage persistence in prayer (Luke 18:1-7). Following the Lord’s lead, The Prayer of Jabez does an excellent job of emphasizing the need for cultivating a rich prayer life.
Another helpful focus of the book is its exhortation for Christians to focus their prayers on ministry and not on personal desires. That is noteworthy as many of today’s popular books encourage prayer merely for individual gain. They assert that God owes blessings to them, and they should ask Him for anything they desire. Dr. Wilkinson never encourages that attitude. Though he states God will bless the believer, the blessing will come in the form of more and more opportunities to minister to others in need. Answered prayer, Dr. Wilkinson reminds us, is born out of proper motives (James 4:3).
With those commendations in mind, however, there are some areas of concern in The Prayer of Jabez.
First of all, the book leaves the door open for Christians to presume upon God. Wilkinson writes, “I want to teach you how to pray a daring prayer that God always answers.” (p. 7, emphasis added). Though it is true that God hears the prayers of His saints, there is no guarantee that He will always answer them in the expected manner. To suggest to the reader that God will always answer those who pray Jabez’s prayer greatly overstates reality.
Furthermore, that expectation could lead believers to experience disappointment with God. Someone might feel justified complaining that he prayed the “model prayer of Jabez” but God never answered. The truth is, there could be other reasons for God’s silence, such as our own unconfessed sin or impure motives. Or perhaps God’s plan for that person is far different from what they asked for in prayer. Dr. Wilkinson does not clarify his statement, but repeatedly claims throughout the book that God will most assuredly answer the “Jabez” prayer, a claim that oversimplifies all God’s Word says about prayer.
The book also tends to trivialize the discipline of prayer by making the words of Jabez’s prayer the formula to follow. Wilkinson encourages Christians to repeat the words of Jabez’s prayer regularly. But Jesus spoke against that kind of rote prayer style in Matthew 6:7, where He warned His disciples not to use vain, repetitious prayers. Rather, Christians should pray to God with heartfelt sincerity. Simply repeating the prayer of Jabez daily runs the risk of reducing a believer’s prayer life to vain repetition.
Moreover, The Prayer of Jabez can also create confusion about the importance of the many other prayers throughout the Bible. Does Jabez’s prayer somehow take precedence over Jesus’ model of prayer in Matthew 6:9-13? Are Paul’s prayers worth imitating? Do the prayers of other Old Testament saints help us better understand prayer any more or any less than Jabez’s? Focusing solely on Jabez’s brief prayer implicitly ascribes to it some kind of magical character it does not possess. Certainly, Jabez’s prayer is a very good model, but it does not have any inherent ability to unlock God’s power in the Christian life. Unfortunately, Dr. Wilkinson’s book does little to dissuade such conclusions about the prayer.
Finally, The Prayer of Jabez paints an inconsistent picture of the Christian life. Wilkinson asserts that praying Jabez’s prayer leads to a life of incredible blessing and ever-increasing ministry opportunities-a life that sounds almost like a fairy-tale. However, little reference is ever made to the reality of genuine difficulties in life, and the necessity of sincere prayer to face those difficulties in a God-honoring way. Furthermore, Dr. Wilkinson fails to encourage the importance of faithfulness in the mundane circumstances of daily living. He seems to indicate that real Christian living is only happening when Christians encounter regular miracles and astounding ministry opportunities in life. Scripture, however, points to the importance of learning to live a life fixed on pleasing God in all the little details in life-attitudes, thoughts, words, and behavior. The Prayer of Jabez fails to exhibit biblical balance in that regard.
In conclusion, The Prayer of Jabez can be a helpful tool because it encourages Christians to look to Jabez’s prayer as one of many biblical models of prayer worthy of emulation. You can look to Jabez’s prayer along with the prayers of other Bible characters in an effort to better inform your own prayer life. But remember, true prayer does not consist of a set of mantras or incantations employed to elicit a particular response from God. God is not a genie in a bottle, waiting to be coaxed out so He can grant wishes. Rather, prayer is about aligning your mind and heart with God’s sovereign purposes.
Prayer is a rich privilege God graciously grants to His children, enabling us to express our submission to His will for our lives. To that end, may we all learn to pray with the humility, dependence, and expectation of blessing Jabez exhibited. (GTY.org)
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Jason Robertson is a husband and a father and a pastor. He is dedicated to leading and equipping his the Church with God’s word and biblical theology for life ministry, using a combination of pastoral, church planting and evangelism experience. He holds a Master of Divinity from New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He is experienced in church planting, evangelism, missions, and the training of pastors and Bible teachers.
Jason has been preaching the gospel since 1985, serving the first ten years of ministry as a Southern Baptist itinerant evangelist out of Milldale Baptist Church in Zachary, LA which ordained him in 1993. He has preached in hundreds of churches in over 30 States and 4 countries. He planted churches in Siberia, Russia in the summers of 1993 and 1994. He founded Murrieta Valley Church in California, which he planted in cooperation with the SBC NAMB in 2001. He also teaches ministry students at California Baptist University.
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I personally prefer the knock-off version… “The Mantra of Jabez” by Douglas Jones
The little old lady who was responsible for marketing the book was the same little old lady that the (un)holy spirit told Todd Bentley to kick in the face.
I was deeply disapointed with Bruce Wilkinson when I read The Prayer of Jabez. I was shocked at his deeply flawed hermeneutic. I kept asking myself, “How can he get it THIS wrong?”
I knew as a pastor I was going to have to do a bit of damage control because of the book’s popularity. After speaking with one woman in my church who assured me that “it really works,” I knew I was going to have go public so I wrote a newsletter article on it and addressed it from the pulpit.
Sloppy theology leads to sloppy living.
I was listening to John Piper and he still recommends the book.
Piper?
Could you provide a link to that?
Piper: “Take the challenge of Bruce Wilkinson and be like Jabez. Lay hold on God for some great biblical vision for your life on this earth and don’t let go until you have it from his merciful hand” -sermon, “Learning to Pray in the Spirit AND THE WORD,” 12/31/2000
He said he’d been told there were things in it he wouldn’t like, but that was okay, we can read discerningly. He also said: “It’s difficult to stumble when you’re on your knees.”
Also, “God keeps us secure through our prayers! …Prayer is the Christian’s vital breath – we exhale prayer and inhale grace.”
“…Take the Pharisee. He stood in the Lord’s house, and he thought he had the Lord’s blessing, and it made him very bold, and he spoke with unctuous self-complacency, “God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are,” and so on. He had the blessing, and well indeed he supposed himself to have merited it. He had fasted twice in the week, paid tithes of all that he possessed, even to the odd farthing on the mint, and the extra halfpenny on the cummin he had used. He felt he had done everything. His blessing of a quiet or a quiescent conscience; good, easy man. He was a pattern to the parish. It was a pity everybody did not live as he did; if they had, they would not have wanted any police. Pilate might have dismissed his guards, and Herod his soldiers. He was just one of the most excellent persons that ever breathed. He adored the city of which he was a burgess! Ay, but he was not blessed indeed. This was all his own overweening conceit. He was a mere windbag, nothing more and the blessing which he fancied had fallen upon him, had never come. The poor publican, whom he thought accursed, went to his home justified rather than he. The blessing had not fallen on the man who thought he had it. Oh, let every one of us here feel the sting of this rebuke, and pray: “Great God, save us from imputing to ourselves a righteousness which we do not possess. Save us from wrapping ourselves up in our own rags, and fancying we have put on the wedding garments. Bless me indeed. Let me have the true righteousness. Let me have the true worthiness which thou canst accept, even that which is of faith in Jesus Christ.”–Spurgeon’s sermon on The Prayer of Jabez
“…The prayer of every one that serves God should be, “Oh that thou would bless me indeed.” Plod on, plod on. If I only build one piece of masonry in my life, and nothing more, if it be gold, silver, or precious stones, it is a good deal for a man to do; of such precious stuff as that, to build even one little corner which will not show, is a worthy service. It will not be much talked of, but it will last. There is the point: it will last.”–Spurgen